Tuesday, February 26, 2013

When The Going Gets Tough,

Get Cooking!


It was one of those days today that just felt long, exhausting, and draining.  Lots of meetings, getting home late, and the rainy and frigid weather led to a low mood.  I just wanted something good to happen-- so I tried to add some happy to my day with some home cooking!

I tried my first ever "made up" recipe.  I'm not saying I'm the first person to ever make it, just that I actually thought of the combination of ingredients myself for myself... no recipe involved.  Although I love to follow recipes, it's one of the first times I threw together a real meal and one that I would proudly serve to others.  I think it was reading the wonderful Penzey's Spices (www.penzeys.com) catalog last night that inspired me to try a whole new spin on a few of my favorite foods by putting them together.  I can't control the other stuff, but for a few minutes, everything was right in my world after a bite or two.

Avocado Bacon Macaroni and Cheese

Ingredients

*Pasta shells (2/3 of the box)
*4 slices bacon
*1 yellow onion, chopped
*3 cloves of garlic, chopped
*1.5 cups of shredded cheese (I used a blend of cheddar and Swiss)
*1 avocado, sliced
*salt
*3 tablespoons butter
*3 tablespoons flour
*warmed milk (3/4 cup)
*bread crumbs (optional)

Directions

1.  Boil water with a pinch of salt and add pasta, stirring occasionally for 9 minutes.
2.  While doing step 1, cook the four slices of bacon in a dutch oven or nonstick pan over medium heat.
3.  Cook bacon until nicely browned.  Remove bacon from pan, leaving the grease.  Place bacon on a plate lined with a paper towel.  Allow to cool, then chop.
4.  Add the chopped onion to pan with bacon grease.  Cook approximately five minutes over medium heat, stirring occasionally.  Add garlic for the last two minutes.
5.  In a saucepan, heat the butter.  Add flour gradually, stirring to avoid lumps.  Add warmed milk, stirring until as smooth as possible.
6.  Take pasta off heat and drain.  Add to greased casserole dish.  Add cheese sauce to pasta, stirring to combine (mine was thick).  Add onion and garlic mixture to the cheese and pasta.  Stir, then add the shredded cheese and avocado, stirring to combine.  Add bacon, and stir in well.  If you would like, top with additional cheese or bread crumbs.
7.  Bake for approximately 15-20 minutes.  Enjoy!

This was a rich, satisfying treat on a winter night... won't fix everything, but it can't hurt!


Saturday, February 23, 2013

The Beauty of a Better Budget

As I mentioned before, I've been trying to get out of some credit card debt for the last couple of years.  It's not that much, but it's been lingering along way past its welcome, and this year I became very determined to get rid of it once and for all.

I've been focusing on budgeting better by using many strategies and tips I've either found online, through trial and error, or through others' advice.  Just to recap, the ones that have really worked for me are:

1)  Transfer balance to a zero percent credit card (Chase).  This tip came from my best friend and has helped me to stop the snowball from getting bigger.

2)  USE CASH!  This tip has, hands down, saved me a lot of money and made budgeting so much less painful.  I just take out a certain amount each week, and then I try to see how much of that initial amount I can keep until the next week.  If I need something, I will buy it, but I am using my cash now for most purchases other than getting gas.  It forces me to be more aware of what I am spending my money on, and it often is the little push that I need to take a minute to find a coupon or use a circular to look at the drugstore sales.   For some reason, "I saved 4.00," seems like so much more of an accomplishment when using cash as opposed to plastic, and it feels like buying stuff is more satisfying as well when I'm handing over the cold, hard cash.

3)   When buying online, use Ebates.  I really like this site, since if you are shopping online, you may as well get a little something back.  This site pretty much gives cash back rewards for all the websites I shop at regularly (Drugstore.com, Nordstrom, Sephora, JCrew, QVC, etc.).  I recently got a check back for 6.00 all for shopping I would have done anyway.  Great site, especially when they have the double cash back from a merchant you would shop with anyway.

4)  Use the wallet index card with a summary of your debts in front of your cash.  If you have to see that every time you look at your wallet, it's easier to say no to some of those impulse buys.  After all, that number would probably be a lot less if I'd made fewer of those over time.

5)  Figure out which services you can cut.  Only you know which things you can get rid of or cut back on without too much pain.  For me, this included cutting my cable and internet to a more basic plan.  Is my internet a little slower?  Yes.  Do I miss On Demand?  Yes.  But am I miserable with this plan?  Not at all.  I also was able to cut my phone bill by about 16.00 a month just by calling and asking the person for advice on my plan.  This one was completely painless, but now I'll be getting that 16.00 extra instead of Verizon.

6)  COSTCO, COSTCO, COSTCO
I cannot say how happy I am that there is finally a Costco nearby.  For a yearly fee of 55.00, you can save a lot by shopping at Costo.  A few recent examples of me saving money there include buying my coffee only from Costco from now on.  A 2.5 pound bag (40 oz.) of good coffee from Costco is 13.49, while a 12 ounce bag of my Starbucks Veranda Blend is about 8.00.  So I can pay .33 or .66 an ounce- easy decision.  I am now paying HALF of what I used to for coffee and it tastes just as good.  I also recently purchased a 4-pack of shave gel there for 7.49 and they are even 20% bigger than the ones from the drugstore.  Another sleeper at Costco (pun intended)- the pillows.  They were recommended to me, and I picked up a pack of two for less than 11.00.  They also are fantastic quality.  One more reason to shop at Costco- they are one of the few retail companies that pays a living wage including health benefits to the workers and allows them to unionize.  A company that treats their employees with dignity and respect and saves me money- yes, please!

7)  Find another way to focus on the indulgences you enjoy buying.  For example, I really enjoy buying and trying makeup, beauty products, etc.  These purchases probably account for a large proportion of my discretionary spending, and I know that probably won't change no matter how much I want to be better with money.  Again, my best friend had a good idea that has worked for me- work on using things up in this category.

There are many benefits to doing a "Use it Up Challenge":

*It forces you to think about the things you do use up (lotions, etc.) and the things you don't but keep purchasing (eye shadows-- I've actually NEVER used one up).
*It's very satisfying to use things up, to think that you got your money's worth and then you can decide if you want to purchase it again or move to on greener pastures.
*It saves money because when you see something you want to buy, you think of all the other ones that you already have and the ones you're trying to use up.

In all honesty, despite the fact that I'm on a "Use it Up" period, I still did make a purchase last night on QVC- A Mally Kit I've had my eye on for some time.  But I'll definitely have fun using that one up, and it's a reward for all of the good choices I've been making lately!

8)  Reward Yourself- this tip I've seen in many magazines and blogs.  No matter how much you want to cut your budget, it will be a miserable experience if you don't reward yourself.  One really good idea I've heard is to take out your weekly budget allotment.  Anything that you have saved up by the end of the week, put half in the bank or toward your next week's budget, then create a "fun money" fund with the other half for any purchases you would like.

These are my best tips, and in combination, they've helped to keep me motivated and to see the beauty of a good budget!



Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Lent

 This year, I was struggling with what to give up for Lent.  After a really bad experience of giving up coffee a few years ago, which seemed to only punish me and those around me, but didn't get me any closer to God, I didn't even know what to give up or if I should give up anything.  After all, I eat pretty healthfully, and other than the coffee, there's nothing that I have every day that I felt like would be much of a sacrifice to give up.

I wanted to do something that would make me better, make me closer to God, and if possible, make the world just a little bit better.  And finally... I had a good idea- giving up being mean.  If anything is clear at this point in time, it's that our world needs less meanness.  Meanness on T.V., meanness disguised as humor, and meanness towards others not "just like us" all seem rampant today.  I decided that during Lent, I would give up being mean.  As a decently nice person, I've already made better choices since making this decision, but I've also failed a few times already.  One of the biggest things I've realized as a result is that so many times, I am mean to myself.  I'll find myself doubting myself, second-guessing myself, or about to not act in my own best interest of complete self-respect.  It's made me so much more aware of those times, and it's surprisingly easy to just say, "Stop it.  Don't be mean," when it is directed in a way towards myself.  It's a big way of letting myself off the hook, and I've found that being better this way towards myself is making me better towards others as well...more clear, more direct, and just more thoughtful.  More likely to give them the benefit of the doubt or just accept them as I am accepting myself as I am more.

I know that I won't always meet the goal throughout the season, but I already feel more peaceful and secure since making this decision.  I know that others around me have already benefited, and even in situations that I don't know what to do, I now start by thinking, "Don't be mean."  I'm feeling like this is a much better Lenten choice for myself since it's helping me to become better, and hopefully I will keep this habit long after Lent is over.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

More Stepping It Up

The good thing about wanting to step it up is the fun of shopping and feeling justified in indulging yourself.  The other thing that you have to do once you have the stuff is actually do something with it-- actually step it up.  Have I done this so far?

Yes, and so far those black boots from Nine West may be the MVP of my purchases lately along with my new eye palette from Too Faced.  Today, I returned something to Kohl's I had purchased online (Lauren Conrad boyfriend blazer- very cute, fit great, but the color was much darker in person and way too close to the color denim I have).  I had to walk through, and I found this shirt (Lauren Conrad again).  Once I saw it, I was hoping it was on sale, and it was-- total of $21.60, so not bad. Here's the best part- once I tried this guy on, I instantly realized I wanted a hot pink blazer instead of teal.  I'm thinking this one shirt can help me with my color schemes for the next few months because it combines most of my favorite colors together and it is just so pretty!  

I can't wait to wear it, and I will definitely post some pics!